Friday, 10 July 2009

The Difficult Post

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I'm sorry for my previous post. I just find it difficult to know what to say.

So I'll just say this.

Last week a little cousin left us unexpectedly. She was only three. A beautiful, wide-eyed three year old with a smile to match.

Needless to say, today was a big day and such a sad farewell.
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41 comments:

  1. KPB10 July 2009 at 9:12 pm

    It is just beyond words.

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  2. Cindy10 July 2009 at 9:36 pm

    No words, just support xx

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  3. Monique10 July 2009 at 9:41 pm

    So very sad Lexi. Much love to you and your family.

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  4. e.10 July 2009 at 9:41 pm

    The difficult post makes for difficult commenting... What can anyone say to me this feel better? Just wanted you to know that random strangers are thinking of you and yours. Take care.

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  5. CurlyPops10 July 2009 at 9:45 pm

    So sad. I have no words. Thinking of you all.

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  6. Bek10 July 2009 at 10:01 pm

    The others are right. There is nothing to say, but I don't want to say nothing. I feel for you all.

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  7. Sunshine10 July 2009 at 10:05 pm

    Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  8. Ellieboo10 July 2009 at 10:06 pm

    sending you much love in the toughest of times - like the others, words escape me.

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  9. Anonymous10 July 2009 at 10:18 pm

    The sad farewell is the beginning. There will be lots of days of sad remembering until one day you suddenly realise it makes you so very glad that you are able to remember.

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  10. Jodie10 July 2009 at 10:39 pm

    Oh ! Three is only just a sweet beginning. I'm sending good thoughts and warm internet hugs.

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  11. Rachael @Mogantosh10 July 2009 at 10:45 pm

    Oh Lexi, I'm so sorry. Sometime, later, later, there is a beautiful book about a lost 3-year-old called 'Hannahs Gift.'

    http://www.amazon.com/Hannahs-Gift-Lessons-Fully-Lived/dp/0553381229

    Much love to you today.

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  12. pepper10 July 2009 at 10:50 pm

    thats so sad, I have no words for it. sending love and hug vibes your way and to all who experience loss like this. I can't imagine. x

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  13. A10 July 2009 at 10:57 pm

    Hugs.

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  14. trash11 July 2009 at 2:40 am

    So sad. thinking of you and all her family.

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  15. Megan.K.11 July 2009 at 8:51 am

    Oh Lexi.
    My love to you all.
    x

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  16. Christina Lowry11 July 2009 at 9:03 am

    My words can't convey all that I felt when I read your post. It has stirred old memories. I offer my condolences. This loss is tragic beyond words. This quote says more than I could.
    "What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye.
    We remember that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget."

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  17. Christie11 July 2009 at 9:18 am

    sorry lexi, not something that anyone should have to deal with, ever.

    thinking of you all

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  18. Leonie Guld11 July 2009 at 10:33 am

    speechless, love to you and yours x

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  19. Belinda11 July 2009 at 11:10 am

    Our thoughts are with you and your family.

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  20. Kirsty11 July 2009 at 11:44 am

    Sending so much love to you all Lex.

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  21. Kylie11 July 2009 at 11:50 am

    This is just so sad and brings back so much - we lost a cousin at 5 years old to cancer and it is truly a hole in your world. I ended up repainting all the rooms in our house just to deal with it somehow - letting out the frustrations. Love to you all and your families. It's going to be tough. My email's on my site if you need someone to talk to, ok? Kylie x

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  22. Anonymous11 July 2009 at 12:21 pm

    With tears in my eyes, I don't know what to say to you, such a a terrible, terrible loss. Our love from this little family to yours.

    xox

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  23. Michelle11 July 2009 at 1:02 pm

    so very, very sad...

    xxx

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  24. Tania11 July 2009 at 1:51 pm

    My heart is in my throat and I can't begin to imagine how things are with you and yours. My thoughts are also with you.

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  25. Leonie11 July 2009 at 3:25 pm

    So sorry for your loss, she may not have been on this earth very long but her presence will not ever be forgotton by those who loved her including your little ones. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

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  26. Laura Jane11 July 2009 at 6:56 pm

    Oh boy. Thats incredibly sad and awful news.

    Big hugs to you all, there will always be a sweet little cousin shaped hole in your family life.

    Thinking of you. Sharing a tear.

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  27. Mel11 July 2009 at 7:15 pm

    Lexi, I am so so sorry. This is just beyond words. Sending you and your beautiful family love and hugs through cyberspace x

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  28. Michelle11 July 2009 at 7:24 pm

    I'm so sorry. That's all I have words to say. I'm thinking of you all.

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  29. JustJess11 July 2009 at 8:07 pm

    Much love to you and the family. xx

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  30. Shelley Trbuhovich11 July 2009 at 10:55 pm

    the tears are flowing, so tragic. i am so sorry. love to you and your family. lots of love....xxx

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  31. Bianca11 July 2009 at 11:10 pm

    So sorry Lexi.

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  32. Miss Muggins11 July 2009 at 11:25 pm

    This is not something that you should have to go through. God bless you and yours as you process this terrible tragedy, and may you find Peace, as you draw on each other. An angel has been called to Heaven.

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  33. gemma @ loz and dinny12 July 2009 at 8:34 am

    Much love to you and your wee family from this wee family on the small island. xx

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  34. Nikkers12 July 2009 at 11:18 am

    So sorry your family is feeling such a sad loss.
    Be sure you give and get lots of hugs.

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  35. Amber12 July 2009 at 2:08 pm

    Oh I am so so sorry to read this here today. What a sad time. Mush love to you and your family...xxx

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  36. Rachel12 July 2009 at 7:42 pm

    I'm so very sorry to hear of your tragedy, Lexi. I wish you and your family all my love and support. I hope you can find comfort and strength in each other at such a difficult time. xoxo

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  37. Rachael12 July 2009 at 7:42 pm

    In our thoughts.

    Just devastating.

    xxx

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  38. Stacey13 July 2009 at 10:13 am

    My heart breaks to think about such an event.
    My thoughts are with you and your family.

    XX

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  39. Josephine Tale Peddler16 July 2009 at 9:30 pm

    There could be nothing more heart ripping than the death of a child. So sorry to read this. My best to you and your family and the little one's family. Wishing words could convey what the heart is trying to say more powerfully xx

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  40. Liesl17 July 2009 at 5:54 pm

    Lexi, I am only just catching up on my blog reading and saw this post. This is heart-wrenching: three is so beautiful; so very little. I feel very sad for you and your family. Thinking of you and sending you much love. Liesl xx

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  41. jodesmac17 July 2009 at 8:10 pm

    oh what a dear innocent life,
    my heart bleeds for the parents who are now living their worst nightmare.
    that sadness is so heavy, i wish you and your family strength and love to hold each other tight . best wishes to you

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